1. Make some time for everyone
If you have multiple people in your life that both contribute to one role (for example, a dad and a step-dad) try giving each of them their own special time on the wedding day.
For example, if your dad is walking you down the aisle, maybe you can plan to do a first look with your step-dad? Not only will it make them both feel special, but it will also prevent anyone from feeling left out on the wedding day.
2. Let them be themselves
While most family members are super excited to be part of traditional wedding day moments (putting on the bride's veil, straightening the groom's tie, etc.) it's not for everyone.
If your loved one isn't comfortable in a certain role, don't push it. Maybe your mom would rather have a first look alongside your dad than be the one helping you get into your dress. Or maybe your sister wants to be the one that helps your hubby get his jacket on. Remember, this day is uniquely YOU, and that means it's about your unique loved ones too. Don't push them into being part of traditional moments if they don't want to be. Letting them participate in the day the way they are comfortable doing so will make everyone feel more at ease.
3. Let your photographer know
The most uncomfortable family situations will usually happen during the formal family pictures when everyone has to be in the same place at the same time. Make sure your photographer is aware of any potential family issues. If mom and dad divorced a few months ago and dad is bringing his new GF, it's probably best that we don't ask the three of them to be in the same picture! (yikes).
Stressful moments like these can be avoided by putting together a family shot list with all of the different family combinations that you want. Not only does it help to make sure we have all of your requests, but it also helps to squash any uncomfortable family situations.